The fourth edition of Passage Between Your Legs, organized by Reprolife Nigeria, took place on the 10th of November, started at 2 pm. This edition was titled “pleasure 101” and it was aimed at letting young people understand pleasure and how it can be translated into practicing safe sex. All activities done were aimed at ensuring each participant learned a thing or two on their sexual health.
Introductions were made as there were new members. General rule is to say your name and mention a word related to sexuality (this is aimed and dispelling the stereotypes on sexual health). Mtv Shuga, a series on issues of sexual and reproductive health was shown, it lasted for 20 mins, a discussion on lessons learned includes:
– Transactional sex,
– The importance of teaching comprehensive sexuality education to young people as they are always curious.
-Relationship dynamics and the importance of communicating with a partner.
Second activity was the condom-line up game. This game aims at teaching that using of condoms was beyond just a wearing process and it can be a pleasurable activity. Safe to say we now have people who are pros in using a condom correctly.
The final activity was the discussion on Pleasure 101.
What does pleasure mean to you?
We are all the same parts but organized in a different way
Centering your pleasure:
Condom pleasure tips: We shared some tips on how to make condom pleasurable.
Consent: always seek consent, with consent you are more relaxed and interested.
Sexual responsibility: When you know you have protected yourself from STI and unplanned pregnancy you are more likely to relax and enjoy sex with your partner.
After the session, we all took the time to talk to each other. This is the last session for the year, passage Between your Legs resumes February 2019 and we hope you can join us.